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Question 01 / 10

How long have you been exploring BDSM?

Your level of experience helps us calibrate your profile

🌱

Completely new

I'm curious but haven't explored much yet

📚

A few months in

I've tried some things, still learning

⛓️

1–3 years experience

I know what I like and have practised it

👑

Veteran (3+ years)

BDSM is a core part of my lifestyle

Question 02 / 10

How do you identify within BDSM?

Your primary role or tendency in a dynamic

🔴

Dominant

I take control, set the scene, and lead

⛓️

Submissive

I surrender control to a trusted partner

🔄

Switch

My role shifts depending on the person

🧭

Still exploring

I haven't settled on a role yet

Question 03 / 10

When you fantasize about a scene, what element is essential?

Your core fantasy driver

🎯

Total control

Directing every moment — my word is law

🪢

Complete surrender

Being completely at the mercy of another

🎭

Narrative and roleplay

The story, characters, and power dynamics

✨

Sensory intimacy

Heightened physical sensations and closeness

Question 04 / 10

Which practice appeals most to you?

The activity you're most drawn to or curious about

🪢

Bondage & Restraint

Ropes, cuffs, Shibari — the art of restriction

🖐️

Impact Play

Spanking, floggers, paddles, sensation of impact

🕯️

Sensory Play

Wax, blindfolds, ice, feathers — sensory overload

👤

Roleplay & Dynamics

Master/slave, pet play, protocols, power exchange

Question 05 / 10

How do you approach aftercare?

What happens after the scene matters just as much

🛏️

Long and intense

I need significant recovery time and comfort

🤗

Warm and affectionate

Cuddling, soft reassurance, warmth

💞

I love caring for my partner

Tending to them after a scene fulfils me

🧠

Independent

I recover quickly and don't need much

Question 06 / 10

What physical intensity level attracts you?

Be honest — this defines your intensity score

🌸

Soft & Sensual

Light restraint, gentle touch, low-intensity play

🔗

Moderate

Some restraint, mild impact, sensory exploration

🔥

Intense

Impact play, discipline, edging, strong sensation

⚡

Extreme

Edge play, heavy humiliation, high-risk dynamics

Question 07 / 10

How important is protocol and ritual to you?

Structure, rules, and ceremony in your dynamic

📜

Essential

Rules, titles, rituals define the power exchange

🗒️

Some structure

A bit of protocol adds depth but isn't required

🌊

Free-flowing

I prefer improvised, organic dynamics

💬

Not important

Communication and connection over rules

Question 08 / 10

Is your BDSM primarily physical or psychological?

Where the real intensity lives for you

🧠

Mainly psychological

Mind games, power dynamics, verbal control

💪

Mainly physical

Sensation, pain, pleasure, restraint

⚖️

A balance of both

Physical sensation fuels the mental state

🤝

Depends on my partner

I adapt to what serves the dynamic best

Question 09 / 10

What are you looking for in a D/s relationship?

The kind of dynamic that feels most right to you

👑

To lead and own

Setting rules, being responsible for my submissive

🌙

To surrender fully

Total trust and devotion to a dominant I choose

🔄

A fluid exchange

Roles that shift naturally with mood and chemistry

💫

Exploration, no deep commitment

Playing and learning without a fixed structure

Question 10 / 10

Which kink excites or intrigues you most?

Your favourite or most curious practice right now

🎨

Shibari / Artistic Bondage

Rope as art — beauty, restraint, and connection

⚡

Electrosex / Wax / Sensory deprivation

Extreme sensory experiences that blur pain and pleasure

🐾

Pet play / Master–Slave protocols

Elaborate personas, rituals, and ongoing dynamics

💸

Findom / Power exchange

Financial or psychological dominance and submission

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